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Matt Huang's avatar

One of the most impactful things I learned as a product manager over the years is the power of naming things effectively

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I really liked your post! In addition to the part about permission, I think that people just feel comfortable when being told what to do, and in recent years, as we're being constantly monitored and on call, we always behave—whether it's the fear of being canceled or being chained to your phone on vacation to avoid pissing off your boss. And then, we saw a rise of politicians—in the US, it's the Trump posse, of course—that just takes advantage of their "agency"; they don't play by the rules, and they don't do what they're "supposed" to do. I mean, most people accept reality as it is—I have a smartphone, so I must be available; I have a job, so I have to show up; I was invited to a party, so I have to go; I have body hair, so I have to shave it, etc. People are now, again, TOLD that they don't HAVE to do those things. They can get a flip phone, they can quit their job, they can bail on the party, and they can grow out their body hair. There will be consequences, but the world will keep turning, and the sun will most likely rise again. It's kind of silly. Also maybe a response to the wave of incompetence and self-pity people, at least online, have been on since the pandemic.

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