I was at this Jamie Dimon speech! I had forgotten all about it. At the time, I thought it was too rambling, scattered, and not polished enough. Like he had just jotted a couple random notes on the flight over. But watching it again, I like it and appreciate it much more. Maybe that’s a result of having more work and public speaking experience. The self awareness and self deprecating parts are especially great. He’s funny too. Thanks for sharing!
Whoa cool! That’s funny, and I can imagine how it could come across as rambling. For whatever reason his affect just really appeals to me. glad you enjoyed!
I enjoyed speaking more as I feared disapproval less. I, of course, still like to receive agreement and approval; but it helps to feel able to consider and even learn from a negative response rather than feel done in by it.
Nice piece! I feel like I used to be afraid of trying to imitate others because it could come off as unoriginal or phony. I think I first developed this stigma/fear as a young elementary or middle school student, when I watched people who were ridiculed for directly copying a joke or saying of another student.
But into adulthood, I've found that its actually very hard to even purposefully try to 100% copy someone's tone or way of doing something. I think the only time I've noticed an adult "copying" someone is when a stand up comedian copies a joke almost word for word. In work presentations, wedding speeches, and other adulthood speaking opportunities, I can't think of one "copier."
To your point, I also find that I'm a better speaker when trying to "imitate" someone. I feel that the attempt at imitation gives me more direction and purpose for my tone -- but ultimately, my personality bleeds through and muddies the imitation attempt which ends up creating something original.
This is great advice - I've noticed that I sometimes unconsciously mimic the mannerisms and speaking patterns of my friends, so it makes perfect sense to apply this more deliberately with "professional crushes"
I was at this Jamie Dimon speech! I had forgotten all about it. At the time, I thought it was too rambling, scattered, and not polished enough. Like he had just jotted a couple random notes on the flight over. But watching it again, I like it and appreciate it much more. Maybe that’s a result of having more work and public speaking experience. The self awareness and self deprecating parts are especially great. He’s funny too. Thanks for sharing!
Whoa cool! That’s funny, and I can imagine how it could come across as rambling. For whatever reason his affect just really appeals to me. glad you enjoyed!
I enjoyed speaking more as I feared disapproval less. I, of course, still like to receive agreement and approval; but it helps to feel able to consider and even learn from a negative response rather than feel done in by it.
Nice piece! I feel like I used to be afraid of trying to imitate others because it could come off as unoriginal or phony. I think I first developed this stigma/fear as a young elementary or middle school student, when I watched people who were ridiculed for directly copying a joke or saying of another student.
But into adulthood, I've found that its actually very hard to even purposefully try to 100% copy someone's tone or way of doing something. I think the only time I've noticed an adult "copying" someone is when a stand up comedian copies a joke almost word for word. In work presentations, wedding speeches, and other adulthood speaking opportunities, I can't think of one "copier."
To your point, I also find that I'm a better speaker when trying to "imitate" someone. I feel that the attempt at imitation gives me more direction and purpose for my tone -- but ultimately, my personality bleeds through and muddies the imitation attempt which ends up creating something original.
Makes me think of the book "Steal Like An Artist"
Totally agree. And sort of everything we do is an imitation anyway, so may asw ell be intentional about it
This is great advice - I've noticed that I sometimes unconsciously mimic the mannerisms and speaking patterns of my friends, so it makes perfect sense to apply this more deliberately with "professional crushes"
The GOAT of using voice for effect is Hassan Minhaj
Imitate away! How do you think Jamie learned it??