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Bob Gilbreath's avatar

Another clever data crunch! I’m in full agreement on the cringe factor from people using my name like this. Once you learn this is a tactic, trust goes down significantly.

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Chris Hovde's avatar

I wonder if name use feels more natural in a three-way conversation to indicate a remark is for just one of the two other listeners.

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Joe Hovde's avatar

Certainly. Feels much less tactical in that case

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Mark Hovde's avatar

My wife never uses her real name—always goes by her nickname. Over the years, I’m sure we have used that to our advantage when smarmy sales people try to use her full name, which name they have from her drivers license or something. It helps us to raise our radar and not fall for the insincere “relationship building.”

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Joe Hovde's avatar

Ooh that’s a good one! Probably works for my dad too to some degree

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The Blind Squirrel's avatar

I enjoyed this my morning Jo, Joe. Too much?

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Joe Hovde's avatar

Just the right amount! Merry Christmas

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The Blind Squirrel's avatar

darn typo! *with my morning Jo!

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